For the article analysis, I found an article that was about nonverbal in various stages of relationships. That is one topic in communication studies that really interests me, as well as gender communications, so I loved this article and wanted to share it. I feel that nonverbal is such a major part of communications, which is why I chose this article. In the research, they found that couples thought it more important, were more willing to improve their nonverbal communication, and had the same outlook on nonverbal communication the longer they were together, mostly married couples. I think nonverbal is such an important aspect that many need to realize it's relevance. It is a whole other aspect of communication that can reduce conflict, confusion, and misunderstanding in your relationships. Understanding the importance of nonverbal, having the same outlooks as your partner, and both being willing to improve it can help the relationship grow and develop. Scholars even say that nonverbal can be more important than what you are actually saying. Nonverbal is often more true to your feelings than what you are saying, if the two contradict each other. Facial expression, body language, tone, pitch, vocal rate, emphasis on certain words, all reveal the true message if interpreted correctly. Come on boys, does a girl really mean no when she says no, or it's ok when she says it's ok? Well, sometimes she does, I usually do, but that is why you have to pay attention to the nonverbal aspect as well. I promise you will have much better luck and be happier. Avoid unnecessary conflict, confusion, and misunderstanding.
I love your passion for the article you found. Nonverbal is so huge, and I feel overlooked on an everyday level. I know that a lot of people in class forget how the nonverbal actions in class look to both Deanna and myself. Brandon today actually pointed out how many people look like vegetables today :).
ReplyDeleteDeanna talked about applying the class to your overall goal. Nonverbal can be a major part of event planning. The subtly of what an event planner does says a lot to the people that attend those events.
I completely agree that nonverbal communication is more true than speaking communication. Its amazing how the truth will always come out with nonverbal cues. I feel like by understanding nonverbal communication, you can be able to understand almost anyone.
ReplyDeleteI also agree with the fact that nonverbal communication is key to truly seeing how someone feels about a situation. Regardless of what the person may say you can always tell how they really feel with their non-verbal actions.
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